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Friday, October 21, 2011

Checklists You Can Take To Your Doctor


An important part of getting properly diagnosed or treated is maintaining clear communication with your practitioner. If you suspect that you might have a Particular health or related problems, your first step should be to schedule an appointment with your practitioner. A risks and symptoms checklist can be an important tool to help communicate your concerns. Even if you've been diagnosed and are receiving treatment, a risks and symptoms checklist can be useful in discussing unresolved symptoms and concerns that need to be addressed.  Don’t forget to be PREPARED.  Have your list of questions written down ahead of time and prioritize your questions in relation to your Dr.s visit.  Some things may apply immediately while other questions may have to wait till another appointment.  Take a moment to Thank Your Practitioner for their time and effort.  They are very busy every day to get everyone seen so you’re in and out but by being prepared having questions you will be able to spend more time with your Dr.

By A.I.P Patient ~Amy Chapman

Friday, October 7, 2011

Why Do We Beat Ourselves Up? A Look at Self-Destructive Thoughts


If we had friends that treated us the way that many of us treat ourselves, they wouldn’t be our friends for very long. Imagine a friend who calls up just to complain–about you. Or an alleged buddy who quickly says “I told you so” when you screw up. Or someone who encourages you to give up instead of encouraging you to do your best.

Why do we do this? Why do we treat ourselves in such horrible ways? For some, the negative self-talk is so bad that it would literally be considered verbal abuse if coming from another person. Do any of these sound familiar? “I’m not good enough.” “I knew I’d fail.” “I can’t believe I messed it up again.” “Why can’t I be more like (fill in the blank)?” “I don’t deserve to be happy.” If someone said these things to you, imagine the impact it would have on your confidence.

Negative self-talk can easily turn into a damaging self-fulfilling prophecy where you live down–instead of up–to expectations. It’s a bad habit that could strangle any growth and needs to be dealt with now. This is not “friend” talk. Yet it’s exactly the kind of destructive feedback we give ourselves.
Why? What did we do to deserve this? Is our self-esteem so low that we think we need to be talked to–even by ourselves–like this? Hopefully not.

You’re a fantastic person on an exciting journey, in the middle of creating a life that you want. If I were you, I wouldn’t put up with that negative voice in your head. You deserve better. If anything, your self-esteem needs to be built up, not torn down. What’s so wrong with reminding yourself of how wonderful you are? Isn’t that what you would do for a friend who needed a word of encouragement?

Sometimes, this can be easier said than done. Any self-bashing you might do may actually have its roots in something other people have told you over the years. Harsh words can leave scars that never go away. Still, that doesn’t mean we have to carry on the legacy of beating ourselves up.

You deserve to be treated with respect, encouragement and patience. You demand that much from people you know. Demand it from yourself.  So do yourself a favor when a family, friend, or another person says something you do like or take offense, don’t say anything back your better than that.
Maybe they’re going through some problem we don’t know about, maybe they haven’t gotten the same help that we have, maybe they don’t have a diagnose, they can be mad about that.  We are a special group of people who need to come together and stay positive to each other no matter what our opinion is, right or wrong, there are so many serious things going on in this world~ So let’s not be destructive, tear each other down, be the bigger person and be nice.